Aleta Cai Method

Are you ready to cultivate the presence you desire?


Presence is an energetic state. It speaks for you, dictating your boundaries, your space and your relationship to others. Shift your presence and all other areas change too, including how others see and respond to you.


Hello, I'm Aleta. Drawing from my experiences as a professional dominatrix and healer, I'm here to show you an integrated approach to maximize your charisma, power and autonomy. Read more about how my experiences shaped me here.


It's time to reclaim your space, feel safe in your body and enhance your magnetism. In a world of imbalances, namely, gender and power, we can restore that balance inside.

It is said that some of the best martial artists in the world never engaged in a single fight. Why? The discipline of a true martial art was cultivating a presence that diffused attacks instantly. In the presence of someone trained, controlled and aligned, there is no need to engage in trivialities.

Have you ever noticed how some people attract a certain type of treatment, always? What you radiate, you attract. Many times, past traumas will invite similar experiences into your life, but it is in your power to change this.

We can learn all the verbal and physical techniques we want in order to establish power, but if our presence is weak we will always project weakness and attract situations that reaffirm that weakness.

You save energy by embodying strong energy. 

For Women and Woman-identified Individuals:

A 10-Week Remote Empowerment Module for unlearning harmful conditioning, feeling safe in your body and owning your space.


For Everyone:

A 7-week Remote Chakra Based System for integration & re-calibration:

Mini-modules: 3-week remote, focused work


  • Lower Chakras: Root, Sacral & Solar Plexus
  • Heart
  • Upper Chakras: Throat, Third Eye and Crown


  • Anxiety
  • Focus
  • Empath Development
  • Honing Intuition